Preparations for your first date

1) Plan ahead

2) Choose the right outfit
     a) clean and ironed, no wrinkles, no stains
     b) no tight fitting outfits
     c) outfit should be in good condition
     d) dress for the weather and season
            - pastel colors are perfect for spring dates
            - bright colors for summer dates
            - Earth tone colors for autumn dates
            - neutral colors for winter dates

Ladies
         1) dresses and skirts should be no higher than knee level
         2) no pants on first date
         3) small earrings and necklace are the basic accessories you need   
               on the first date
         4) must be fully clothed, no exposure of the bra
         5) comfortable shoes are important
         6) shoes must match the outfit you're wearing
         7) In the winter time, wear a winter coat that is business casual.
               Fake fur coats are acceptable.  Wear a scarf to cover the chest and neck
               region, if  you're wearing a coat that is buttoned down from the
               upper abdomen region.  No bulky ski coat, unless you're going
               skiing or ice skating outdoors.
         8) no skimpy outfits that show skin.

Men
         1) No jeans, or trousers.  Just business slacks
         2) Must wear pants that are secure above the hips, do not wear the
              ones that slouch way below the hips.
         3) A button down shirt and business pants are the basic dress code
                for the first date.  A blazer, a tie or a business vest                
                are acceptable.
         4) Business shoes only, no sneakers, work boots nor
                 sandals.   
         5) Neutral and earthtone colors are essential for all
                 seasons.
         6) Shirless outfits are a no no (unless you're going to the
                 beach).
         7) In the winter, wear a trench coat or a leather coat
                 (good for autumn season as well), no fur coat
                 accepted.

3) Schedule reservations ahead of time (a week to a month
      in advance).

4) Personal Hygiene. 
      - Light amount of perfume for ladies and 
        cologne for men. 
      - Wash up before you dress up for your date (shower or
        bath).     
      - Use anti-perspirant deordorant.  24 hour protection is
        recommended.
      - Brush your teeth and use anti-septic mouthwash.
      - For those who are on the go, carry some breath mints
        with you, no chewing gum.

5) Double check everything you need before you leave for your 
      date.
     - emergency money
     - emergency contacts
     - travel money - gasoline and tolls if your're driving, transit money for
       public transportation or taxi or limousine money if you prefer
       to be chaulffered.
     - fully charged cell phone only for emergencies.
     - car keys, if you have a car.
     - tickets or passes to events or shows
     - gift for your date.
     - brunch, lunch and dinner money.